Do you consider yourself a feminist? An alley? Abolitionist? Do you theoretically believe that women are your equals? Are the women you picture yourself allied to Black? Trans?
I’m open minded, you may say.
Even, I make space for women!
But do the women in your life challenge you? Do you accept it? Does it bother you when a woman calls you out? Are your female friends congratulatory of your super-social-justice powers?
You are one of a few cis-men who “get it”? some may say.
The “only” “woke” guy around!
But do you have yourself some ratchet girl friends? Do they criticize you directly? Loudly? Unapologetically? Do you stand up for them? Would you fuck/respect/marry a kinky, slutty, ratchet putita who likes to be called/treated as such in the bedroom? Do you understand that she still requires consent?
Why does saying Black Lives Matter feel weird to you?
Is there still a very rigid, antiquated definition of “respectability” in your mind?